Why subscribe?

Subscribe if you’re learning how to hold grief and joy at the same time—while still showing up to love, lead, and live in a world that rarely slows down.

This is writing for people walking unplanned paths. For those carrying responsibility, uncertainty, and deep love in equal measure. For anyone who wants words that don’t rush you to silver linings or tidy endings.

You’ll receive thoughtful essays and honest reflections—sometimes heavy, sometimes light—that name what is hard without losing sight of what is good.

No fixing. No pretending.
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About Holding Both

Holding Both is a place for the tender mess and the quiet magic.

It’s for the lives we didn’t plan, the strength we didn’t ask for, and the meaning we make anyway.

I write here because life rarely offers clean narratives. Because joy and grief often arrive together. Because love can be both the most beautiful thing in the world and the most terrifying.

This space holds stories of motherhood, resilience, loss, love, identity, and becoming—especially when the path veers far from what we imagined. Some essays are heavy and raw. Others are lighter, reflective, and gently hopeful. All of them are honest.

I believe there is power in naming what is hard without losing sight of what is good. And I believe telling our stories—carefully and bravely—can make room for others to breathe a little easier.

This isn’t a space for tidy conclusions.
It’s a space for holding both.

I’m glad you’re here.
— Maria